A range of actions, besides driving, exist for you and your horse. Most horses enjoy human companionship and attention. If you do not have a whole lot of time before and after your riding, but you’d like more bonding time with your horse, try to come to the stable a little premature, even a few minutes can help. Spend those few minutes with your horse, taking your time brushing him, speaking to him, and rubbing a few of his favorite”sweet spots”; he will thank you for it with a good ride because he’s relaxed and happy.
If you reside with your horse and just enjoy spending time with him and want to bond with him, you can groom himhorses like being groomed, it is like an all over body massage, and, it tones his muscles. You could also give him a massage, you do not need to become an expert by any means to do this, just find an area he loves to get rubbed and scratched and rub and scratch it; you will end up with a really relaxed, happy, horse that really enjoys having you come to the stable because he knows it means positive items. Apart from grooming and massages, braiding your horse’s mane and tail can be very relaxing, but don’t just jump right to it, some horses do not appreciate having their manes and tails pulled for braiding; others find it relaxing, like a scalp massage. A different way to spend time with your horse is to play games with him. You can even turn it into a training session, even for those who own a horse which dislikes water, put on a pair of waterproof boots and stand in the water of a stream or creek and offer a cure for every step the horse takes into the water; or when he hates being tied, use him standing quietly tied to a pole or in cross ties, giving him a treat each time he stands still.
Working with your horse could be a lot of fun, but don’t let him pick up bad habits such as nipping, biting, or pushing to get treats. A pushy horse is a dangerous horse since he thinks he is the boss. Horses are big animals and can do a great deal of damage. Make him be respectful of your own personal space, and you will be happy and so will your horse.